In the spirit of collaborative, amicable and efficient IEP meetings (and the new part of the sped teacher evaluation), here are some tips. “IEP team leaders need to run their meetings in a way that gives everyone an equal opportunity to participate in and understand the proceedings. [They] also need to foster a climate of respect and trust,” Eric Hartwig, administrator of pupil services for Marathon County Schools, Wisconsin.
1. Don’t tolerate personal attacks. School staff and parents can be demeaning or confrontational when they are angry or frustrated. For example, a parent may turn a discussion about the child’s speech/language services into a discussion about whether the provider is qualified. Personal attacks against parents are most likely to be critiques of their parenting skills. Always intervene and shift the conversation back to the student’s needs. Realize that it is permissible to call for a break if a staff member or a parent needs to be spoken with one-to-one.
2. Don’t allow parents to pick and choose. “There should never be an IEP that says, ‘We didn’t do this because the parents didn’t want it,’” said Hartwig. “If the child needs something, you have to find a way to get it to him.”
3. Do summarize reports, evaluations. In some meetings, evaluators go on for hours regurgitating every piece of data from a test or evaluation. Parents want to know what the information means for their child in an easy to understand, meaningful way.
4. Do instruct staff on how to talk about disabilities. Demonstrate professionalism and compassion. Ask that staff avoid any language that may be interpreted as offensive, derogatory, or negative.
5. Don’t let staff members leave during the meeting. Parents may believe that they don’t have the full attention of all the team members, while team members who miss out on parts of the meetings may not understand why certain decisions were made.
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